Saturday, October 20, 2012

Word of he Day.... Pegging

One of the greatest things out there in today's world as far as I am concerned is the access to so much  information at the tip of your fingertips!  I completely LOVE learning new things!  For instance, I decided to look up "Anal Sex" for this blog and was over whelmed at the information out there!  There is nothing I can say that is totally unique, that someone else has not said, discovered, found out, or experienced.  My last blog did talk a bit about my personal experience but still, WOW is there a lot of information out there!  I did even learn something new which again, is totally cool.  Wikipedia is one of the places that came up first and this is what they said about anal sex....

Anal sex (also called anal intercourse) is the sex act in which the penis is inserted into the anus of a sexual partner. The term can also include other sexual acts involving the anus, including pegging, anilingus, fingering, and object insertion.

While anal sex is commonly associated with male homosexuality, research shows not all gay males engage in anal sex and that it is not uncommon in heterosexual relationships. Types of anal sex can also be a part of lesbian sexual practices.

Many people find anal sex pleasurable, and some may reach orgasm — through stimulation of the prostate in men, and clitoral and G-Spot leg stimulation in women. However, many people find it painful as well, sometimes extremely so, which may be primarily due to psychological factors in some cases.

As with most forms of sexual interaction, anal sex participants risk contracting sexually transmitted diseases; anal sex is considered a high-risk sexual practice because of the vulnerability of the anus and rectum. The anal and rectal tissues are delicate and do not provide natural lubrication, so they can easily tear and permit disease transmission, especially if lubricant is not used. Unprotected anal sex is considered the riskiest form of sexual intercourse; authorities such as the WHO issue recommendations for making anal sex safer.

Well that is the technical information on anal sex.  One question I have about this whole thing is that it says "G-Spot leg stimulation in women."  What the heck does that mean?  I didn't realize I had a "G-Spot" in my leg... maybe I should look for it :O)  

Ok, now the point on the Word of the Day.... Pegging.  I had no idea there was such a word, let alone what it means in reference to anal sex!  I asked a friend if he knew what it was and was surprised that he did.  So Pegging... Wikipedia's definition.....

Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo. The neologism "pegging" was popularized when it became the winning entry in a contest in Dan Savage's Savage Love sex advice column, held after an observation was made that there was no common name for the act. 

Well that is all for tonight.  I hope that you all have a fantastic evening and maybe like me, you learned something new.  Feel free to tell me something even... I love to learn new things :O)

Happy Reading!
Bella Marie

Thursday, October 18, 2012

The Fun of Anal Toys!

As promised, I want to do a blog posting on the fun of Anal toys to celebrate the release of my latest book, Joy's Unexpected Pleasure.  There is a lot of anal exploration on both main charactures parts.  I personally enjoy it tremendously but it wasn't always like that. 

At first I was like "Uh, no way!  That is an exit, not an entrance period!"  I would not even hear of it.  I had talked to some people that really enjoyed it and I was like, "Yeah, whatever, you are nuts!" and left it at that.  My ex and I would get porno's once in a while and it never really thrilled me at first until I really started paying attention to it.  The women in the movie's didn't seem to hate it, as a matter of fact, they seemed to really enjoy it.  Of course my ex was trying to talk me into it so he probably got only anal video's for that reason but still, didn't look too horrible. 

Then during an intimate moment my ex tried slipping a finger into my forbidden bum and well, it didn't feel as horrible as I had suspected it would.  On the contrary, it felt pretty good.  I decided to read a bit about it, see what other's said about it.

I got some great advice on how to best do it and one night, we tried it.  I won't lie, it hurt a bit at first but with persistence, it became my favorite way to have sex, or rather end sex.  Granted we only did it a few times before we separated but it was the best sex of our relationship.  It continues to be one of my very favorite things to do. 

Here's some great advice that I got when I wanted to try it out....
I am a very clean person so being clean is a really good way to start.  The second most important thing is to only consider it with someone you trust, someone that will be careful and gentle especially at first.  That will go slow and will take direction from you as to how fast to go.  The third most important thing to do is to relax.  That is not easy when you are trying something new and so different to you, especially if you are not sure about it in the first place.  Some people suggest playing with toys first and that is not something I tried personally but it seems like a good idea, especially if your partner is like my first one was and very large. 

This is my first toy after I ended up separating from my ex and it ended up being a good friend. 

It is an awesome toy, Big Red, but it is one of the first ones that came out in the silicone line and it had a funky smell to it like burned plastic or something equally as unpleasant.  I wasn't so thrilled with that but let me tell you after I got the smell out of it, the tiny tip and swirly ridges are most enjoyable.  It is also a good toy to start with because it is silicone and feels pretty real.  The best part?  It is also a vibrator and I can tell you, it is amazing.   If you have read my other postings, you will probably guess I enjoy vibrators :O)

I went to my sister's Pure Romance party and found a fantastic cleaner for toys.  It doesn't break down the silicone toys either.  

I highly recommend it.  It works great!

I think over the next few days, I will feature a few anal toy's for your enjoyment.  Various kinds, some that I have, some that I don't.  Anal sex isn't for everyone but for me and a lot of my friends, it is another way to expand on exploring your partner sexually.  A rather enjoyable one in my opinion.  I hope that you enjoyed my posting.  Let me know what you think and I would love to hear your views on anal sex.  

Happy Reading!
Bella Marie 

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

New Release!

Yep, it's amazing!  After all the craziness of my life these days I have a new release!
(Any comments on the cover?)

Joy meets Jack at her friend Nancy’s party, Finding herself kissing him in front of a bunch of strangers with no idea how it happened, it ended up being the best kiss of her life that leads her to invite Jack home for some further fun. She has second thoughts when they get to her house until Jack kisses her again. Throwing caution to the wind, they have a fantastic weekend together. They experiment with Joy’s large collection of adult toys, some spanking, light bondage, shower fun along with lots of back door action for both of them! 

Ok... that is the "G" rated description of the book.  There is nothing "G" rated about this book.  It has intense sex scenes in it where even Jack gets to experience some unexpected pleasure when Joy uses toys in ways that he had never let anyone use them on him before.  There is a lot of intense anal action in this story between both Joy and Jack.  

I enjoyed writing this story, stretching myself to include more light bondage and experiment on how to write it.  I think the story turned out really hot!  I can't wait until others read it and let me know what they think.

Here is a short tidbit that is not in the free preview on Amazon....
Joy tightens her pussy on him, making him gasp at the tightness.  He moves his fingers down to feel where they are joined as he moves in and out of her slowly.  He gets his fingers wet with her pussy juice, moves them around to push one into her ass as he moves his cock into her slowly.  She stops breathing, not sure what he is going to do now.  He starts to move faster, and then moves a second finger into her bum, and she tells him she is going to cum, begging him not to stop.  He does the opposite, stops and takes his fingers out of her ass. 

Joy begs him to please fuck her.  He slaps her bum again, reminding her one more time he is in charge to stop it or he is going to make her regret questioning him.  She can feel his dick at her pussy again, feel it throbbing as he pushes it further into her waiting pussy.  He gets his fingers sopping wet again and pushes one into her ass.  She is really moving now, knowing it won’t be long until she cums.  When he sticks the second finger into her bum, she explodes into a strong orgasm.  He takes his fingers out of her ass, slapping her again on the bum which makes her orgasm last longer and stronger.......

It was really hard to decide on what to share.  There is so much going on in this story.  Tomorrow I will be doing a post on The Fun of Anal Toys because this story was so fun to write.  I hope that you enjoyed the preview of the new book.  I can't wait to hear what you think of it.  I am trying to decide if I am going to continue the story or just start a whole new one with a whole new theme.  

Have a fantastic day everyone! 

Happy Reading!
Bella Marie